I met Jordan through a friend when I was vacationing in California. We all went out one night and he immediately pulled me to the dance floor. I was a little reluctant, I tend to need a few drinks before I'm on the dance floor with a guy, but he was cute so I went for it. We instantly clicked. We knew we liked each other, but we also knew I was on vacation, so what was really possible?
Since the friend I was visiting lived in California I got to see what daily life there was like. Basically, I loved it, who wouldn't? The closer it got to the end of my trip, the more I didn't want to leave. I even looked into changing my flight home so I had more time in California. I ended up leaving as scheduled. Jordan and I said goodbye without knowing when we'd see each other again.
When I got back to Michigan, I went back to the same photography job I'd had for three years, doing the same things I'd been doing for as long as I could remember. I needed a change. I missed California. I went back and forth in my head so many times about the thought of possibly making the move.
During this time, Jordan and I talked very little. He knew I was thinking about moving and he wanted me to, but at the same time he didn't want to affect such a big decision in my life when we barely knew each other. I slowly started making steps in California's direction....breaking the news to my Mom...then to my boss...
I told Jordan the news. We were excited, but also cautious. We knew things would be completely different this time around. I was going to be facing a lot of adjustments and didn't want to jump into anything too fast. We both made sure to have no expectations on how things would go.